What a guy says and even how he acts on the surface rarely reveals how he really feels about you. Do you want to get back together with your ex but aren't sure what to do? Unfortunately, you're probably going about this entirely the wrong way. If you're wondering "does he want me back?" then here are some clues to look for plus some tips on winning him back.
Does your ex still hold on to things that remind him of your relationship? If he still has picture of you, wears clothing you gave him, etc., this is a sign that he doesn't want to let go.
Does your ex randomly show up where you are? He may try to make this look like a coincidence because he doesn't want to look obvious. But if this is happening on a regular basis, then most likely he's doing it on purpose.
Does your ex call you a lot? If he is calling all the time with really random questions, again this is a sign that he wants to stay close. The random questions are just an excuse to talk with you.
It's important to understand that a lot of guys have a very strong sense of pride... they don't want to come right out and tell you how they really feel. That makes them too vulnerable to rejection. That's why they often give mixed signals. That's why it's important that you learn to read in between the lines.
Unfortunately, most women don't learn how to read these signs properly. Or worse, they get too eager to get back together and start acting needy or pushy. This is a huge mistake... it will only push him away. It's important that you remain patient if you want to increase your odds of winning him back.
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